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  "deckNumber": 2,
  "slug": "di-zi-gui-duty-at-home",
  "folderName": "02 Duty at Home",
  "title": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
  "shortName": "Duty at Home",
  "sourceDeckNames": [
    "Deck 2: The Art of Honoring Family"
  ],
  "summary": "Daily filial conduct at home: responsiveness, obedience, care, honesty, correction, and presence.",
  "previewQuote": "\"When my parents call me, I will answer them right away. When they ask me to do something, I will not be lazy.\" - Di Zi Gui",
  "cardCount": 28,
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      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 5,
      "original": "父母呼，应勿缓 (Fù Mǔ Hū, Yìng Wù Huǎn)",
      "chinese": "父母呼，应勿缓",
      "pinyin": "Fù Mǔ Hū, Yìng Wù Huǎn",
      "modern": "Be responsive to your family. When they reach out, don't leave them \"on read.\" Show them that their voice matters to you.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 6,
      "original": "父母命，行勿懒 (Fù Mǔ Mìng, Xíng Wù Lǎn)",
      "chinese": "父母命，行勿懒",
      "pinyin": "Fù Mǔ Mìng, Xíng Wù Lǎn",
      "modern": "Approach family requests not as burdens, but as opportunities to serve the people who gave you life. Act with willingness and grace.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 7,
      "original": "父母教，须敬听 (Fù Mǔ Jiào, Xū Jìng Tīng)",
      "chinese": "父母教，须敬听",
      "pinyin": "Fù Mǔ Jiào, Xū Jìng Tīng",
      "modern": "Even if you disagree with their perspective, honor their experience. Listen to understand the love behind their words, rather than just waiting for your turn to argue.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 8,
      "original": "父母责，须顺承 (Fù Mǔ Zé, Xū Shùn Chéng)",
      "chinese": "父母责，须顺承",
      "pinyin": "Fù Mǔ Zé, Xū Shùn Chéng",
      "modern": "When criticized, lower your defenses. Recognize that their correction, however imperfectly delivered, usually comes from a place of deep concern for your future.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 9,
      "original": "冬则温，夏则凊 (Dōng Zé Wēn, Xià Zé Qìng)",
      "chinese": "冬则温，夏则凊",
      "pinyin": "Dōng Zé Wēn, Xià Zé Qìng",
      "modern": "Proactively anticipate your parents' physical needs. Ensure their living environment is comfortable, safe, and nurturing as they age.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 10,
      "original": "晨则省，昏则定 (Chén Zé Xǐng, Hūn Zé Dìng)",
      "chinese": "晨则省，昏则定",
      "pinyin": "Chén Zé Xǐng, Hūn Zé Dìng",
      "modern": "Build rituals of connection. A simple morning text or an evening phone call reminds them every single day that they are loved and remembered.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 11,
      "original": "出必告，反必面 (Chū Bì Gào, Fǎn Bì Miàn)",
      "chinese": "出必告，反必面",
      "pinyin": "Chū Bì Gào, Fǎn Bì Miàn",
      "modern": "Keep your parents in the loop. Sharing your whereabouts and safe returns is the easiest way to give them the ultimate gift: peace of mind.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 12,
      "original": "居有常，业无变 (Jū Yǒu Cháng, Yè Wú Biàn)",
      "chinese": "居有常，业无变",
      "pinyin": "Jū Yǒu Cháng, Yè Wú Biàn",
      "modern": "Cultivate stability in your life and career. Your personal consistency removes worry from their shoulders, allowing them to relax into their later years.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 13,
      "original": "事虽小，勿擅为 (Shì Suī Xiǎo, Wù Shàn Wéi)",
      "chinese": "事虽小，勿擅为",
      "pinyin": "Shì Suī Xiǎo, Wù Shàn Wéi",
      "modern": "Integrity matters in the micro-moments. Don't take shortcuts or make reckless decisions, as the fallout ultimately affects your family.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 14,
      "original": "苟擅为，子道亏 (Gǒu Shàn Wéi, Zǐ Dào Kuī)",
      "chinese": "苟擅为，子道亏",
      "pinyin": "Gǒu Shàn Wéi, Zǐ Dào Kuī",
      "modern": "Selfishness fractures family bonds. When you act as if your choices only impact you, you neglect the interconnected web of your family's wellbeing.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 15,
      "original": "物虽小，勿私藏 (Wù Suī Xiǎo, Wù Sī Cáng)",
      "chinese": "物虽小，勿私藏",
      "pinyin": "Wù Suī Xiǎo, Wù Sī Cáng",
      "modern": "Practice transparency. Deceit, even in trivial matters or finances, breeds a culture of distrust that can shatter a family.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 16,
      "original": "苟私藏，亲心伤 (Gǒu Sī Cáng, Qīn Xīn Shāng)",
      "chinese": "苟私藏，亲心伤",
      "pinyin": "Gǒu Sī Cáng, Qīn Xīn Shāng",
      "modern": "A parent's greatest pain is discovering a child has lost their moral compass. Your honesty is their greatest source of pride.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 17,
      "original": "亲所好，力为具 (Qīn Suǒ Hào, Lì Wéi Jù)",
      "chinese": "亲所好，力为具",
      "pinyin": "Qīn Suǒ Hào, Lì Wéi Jù",
      "modern": "Become an active observer of what brings your parents joy. Whether it's a favorite food or a hobby, go out of your way to source happiness for them.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 18,
      "original": "亲所恶，谨为去 (Qīn Suǒ Wù, Jǐn Wéi Qù)",
      "chinese": "亲所恶，谨为去",
      "pinyin": "Qīn Suǒ Wù, Jǐn Wéi Qù",
      "modern": "Protect their peace. If an environment or topic stresses them out—or if there's a habit of yours that they truly dislike—actively remove that friction and strive not to do it again.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 19,
      "original": "身有伤，贻亲忧 (Shēn Yǒu Shāng, Yí Qīn Yōu)",
      "chinese": "身有伤，贻亲忧",
      "pinyin": "Shēn Yǒu Shāng, Yí Qīn Yōu",
      "modern": "Taking care of your physical and mental health is an act of love. When you treat your body with respect, you spare your parents from agonizing anxiety.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 20,
      "original": "德有伤，贻亲羞 (Dé Yǒu Shāng, Yí Qīn Xiū)",
      "chinese": "德有伤，贻亲羞",
      "pinyin": "Dé Yǒu Shāng, Yí Qīn Xiū",
      "modern": "Your reputation is an extension of their legacy. Live with such profound integrity that your name brings them immense honor, not apologies.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 21,
      "original": "亲爱我，孝何难 (Qīn Ài Wǒ, Xiào Hé Nán)",
      "chinese": "亲爱我，孝何难",
      "pinyin": "Qīn Ài Wǒ, Xiào Hé Nán",
      "modern": "It is easy to return love when it is freely given. Celebrate and reciprocate the warmth you were lucky enough to receive.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 22,
      "original": "亲憎我，孝方贤 (Qīn Zēng Wǒ, Xiào Fāng Xián)",
      "chinese": "亲憎我，孝方贤",
      "pinyin": "Qīn Zēng Wǒ, Xiào Fāng Xián",
      "modern": "The true test of character is showing grace and honoring the relationship even when it is fractured, difficult, or misunderstood.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 23,
      "original": "亲有过，谏使更 (Qīn Yǒu Guò, Jiàn Shǐ Gēng)",
      "chinese": "亲有过，谏使更",
      "pinyin": "Qīn Yǒu Guò, Jiàn Shǐ Gēng",
      "modern": "True respect doesn't mean blind obedience. If your parents are doing something harmful, it is your duty to gently, lovingly guide them back to safety.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 24,
      "original": "怡吾色，柔吾声 (Yí Wú Sè, Róu Wú Shēng)",
      "chinese": "怡吾色，柔吾声",
      "pinyin": "Yí Wú Sè, Róu Wú Shēng",
      "modern": "The message is only as effective as the delivery. When offering feedback to elders, use a tone steeped in warmth, patience, and absolute respect.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 25,
      "original": "谏不入，悦复谏 (Jiàn Bù Rù, Yuè Fù Jiàn)",
      "chinese": "谏不入，悦复谏",
      "pinyin": "Jiàn Bù Rù, Yuè Fù Jiàn",
      "modern": "Timing is everything. If your advice hits a wall, retreat gracefully and wait for a moment of connection to try again, rather than forcing an argument.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 26,
      "original": "号泣随，挞无怨 (Háo Qì Suí, Tà Wú Yuàn)",
      "chinese": "号泣随，挞无怨",
      "pinyin": "Háo Qì Suí, Tà Wú Yuàn",
      "modern": "Even if setting boundaries with family causes emotional pain or conflict, stand your ground with empathy. Never let the friction turn into lasting resentment.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 27,
      "original": "亲有疾，药先尝 (Qīn Yǒu Jí, Yào Xiān Cháng)",
      "chinese": "亲有疾，药先尝",
      "pinyin": "Qīn Yǒu Jí, Yào Xiān Cháng",
      "modern": "Be a fiercely proactive caregiver. Pay attention to the smallest details of their comfort, anticipating their physical needs when they are most vulnerable.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 28,
      "original": "昼夜侍，不离床 (Zhòu Yè Shì, Bù Lí Chuáng)",
      "chinese": "昼夜侍，不离床",
      "pinyin": "Zhòu Yè Shì, Bù Lí Chuáng",
      "modern": "Be physically present during their darkest hours. Your presence is the most powerful medicine they will ever receive.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 29,
      "original": "丧三年，常悲咽 (Sāng Sān Nián, Cháng Bēi Yè)",
      "chinese": "丧三年，常悲咽",
      "pinyin": "Sāng Sān Nián, Cháng Bēi Yè",
      "modern": "Allow yourself to truly grieve. The depth of your sorrow is simply a reflection of the depth of your love; honor their memory by holding space for your pain.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 30,
      "original": "居处变，酒肉绝 (Jū Chù Biàn, Jiǔ Ròu Jué)",
      "chinese": "居处变，酒肉绝",
      "pinyin": "Jū Chù Biàn, Jiǔ Ròu Jué",
      "modern": "Grief requires a pause. Step back from the noise and excess of daily life to reflect, recalibrate, and honor the transition of their passing.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 31,
      "original": "丧尽礼，祭尽诚 (Sāng Jìn Lǐ, Jì Jìn Chéng)",
      "chinese": "丧尽礼，祭尽诚",
      "pinyin": "Sāng Jìn Lǐ, Jì Jìn Chéng",
      "modern": "Give them a dignified farewell that honors their legacy. Continue to remember them through family rituals that keep their spirit vibrantly alive.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    },
    {
      "chapter": "Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)",
      "deckName": "Di Zi Gui Deck 2: Duty at Home",
      "verseNumber": 32,
      "original": "事死者，如事生 (Shì Sǐ Zhě, Rú Shì Shēng)",
      "chinese": "事死者，如事生",
      "pinyin": "Shì Sǐ Zhě, Rú Shì Shēng",
      "modern": "Let their values live on through your actions. Make decisions today that would make them proud, treating their memory as a living, guiding force in your life.",
      "deckId": "duty-at-home",
      "deckNumber": 2,
      "folderName": "02 Duty at Home"
    }
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